I asked that question a few months ago to a wonderful couple who are very well-matched (believe me, after so many years of working with engaged couples, I have a good "nose" for these kinds of things!), who told me they had met on "Plenty of Fish." At that time, I had no idea what that was -- so asked them for an explanation. It turns out that Plenty of Fish is a free dating website, similar to the paid services -- but this one, besides being free, also seemed to make them feel that their choices were their own, and not controlled by the "powers" of the paid dating services.
A couple of weeks ago, at another couples' consultation, when I asked the question, I got the same answer -- and then just this past week, got the same answer from a third couple!
Okay, I'm seeing a pattern here -- and it's a good one! It sounds to me like Plenty of Fish has my philosophy -- give couples a good service, and let them make their choices, and the end result will be a happy one!
So -- all you single ladies (and men) out there -- my advice is to check out Plenty of Fish -- you just may find the "right catch" out there!
(And no, this is NOT an ad for Plenty of Fish!)